How to Write a Sidekick 101

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Grab some popcorn, soda, and sour patch kidsโ€ฆor maybe raisinets? Okay, your candy of choice because this is a long one! 14 people submitted questions with two to three questions each! Like wow!!! So, this is like the longest post ever! You can just scan till you find your questions, but I totally recommend reading it all because they kind of all buildsโ€ฆlolโ€ฆHave fun!!! Because I added in gifs to make it more fun…lol…

Here we go! *hands out popcorn* Donโ€™t worry, Kaytiโ€™s paying for it *winks*. She did make me answer like a hundred questionsโ€ฆyouโ€™re good at writing Sidekicks *rolls eyes*.

Oh, and I wanted to say for those who arenโ€™t writers MC stands for Main Character and SK (I think I just made that abbreviation up) stands for Sidekick. Enjoy!

How do you make a sidekick feel not totally cut off from the main hero, like definitely side sidekick? Rather, how do you make them have their share of the spotlight without taking too much from the hero, but still having enough for themselves?

Well, thatโ€™s one of the trickiest parts of writing sidekicks, making sure they donโ€™t steal the spotlight. They have to be well developed themselves, such as backstories, humor, and anything your MC has needs to be established for the SK as well. But we donโ€™t usually go into the SKโ€™s head, heโ€™s not usually the one with a problem to work out. At least, not as big a problem as the hero.

How do you write a sidekick as the main character?

Iโ€™m not the best person to answer this since I have never done thatโ€ฆbut I recommend as people told me, to read Sherlock Holmes as it is written from Watsonโ€™s perspective, not Sherlock’sโ€ฆso go read some booksโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ

Personal life. Why the sidekick and not the hero?

Generally, this is because the SK is not a leader, heโ€™s more of a follower. (Which means my sisters and I would be SKsโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ) They donโ€™t feel confident or capable of leading and thus they are the SKโ€ฆor the MC is overbearing, a shadow the SK lives in and refuses to face up to till a certain part in the story where they find the courage to tell the MC how it is and thus knock some sense into the MC and he saves the day, I like those storiesโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ

How to create a lovable sidekick that readers will cherish

What do you cherish about an SK? What makes you like them? What do fall in love with? Now turn around and use that in your own SK!

What are examples of traits a sidekick might have? / What qualities make up a good sidekick?

A sidekick might be loyal (think Samwise Gamgee from LotR), funny (think Pippin Took from LotR), smart (think Riley from National Treasure), brave (think Reepicheep from Narnia), or any other trait. They donโ€™t have specific ones, but the ones mentioned above are the most commonly used and your SK can be a combo of any of the above traits! Such as funny and smart, loyal and brave, funny and loyal, brave and smartโ€ฆ.or anything you want! Just like your MC!

How do you make your sidekicks super fun and amazing without making them more like shadows or people who get in the heroโ€™s way? / How do you balance their positions as side characters with their individuality?

You have to think of them as their own being and not just a prop for the MC. When we think of them as nothing more than a tool to help the MC we lose out on the beauty of what an SK can be when fully developed. As for making them fun and amazingโ€ฆwell, think of something and write it down even if itโ€™s corny or cheesy, leave it and roll with it. You can always make it better when you edit but donโ€™t skip over the opportunity to make a joke because you can only think of cheesy lines. It might turn out that everyone really likes the scene you thought might be cheesy.

How do you keep them from being annoying or cliche?

First, letโ€™s address clichรฉโ€ฆthere is nothing new under the sun. I personally, like clichรฉ thingsโ€ฆlolโ€ฆIโ€™m an old soul all cliches are old and thus it works out great for meโ€ฆlolโ€ฆbut the main thing is to write the character in your head, you can worry about not being clichรฉ later during editing.

As for being annoying, I have not met an SK who is not annoying to the MC, Emmet is annoying to Cruz in Explorer Academy, Much is annoying to Robin in BBCโ€™s Robin Hood, and Sam is annoying to Frodo in LotRโ€ฆetc. Etcโ€ฆIf the SK and MC got along all the time itโ€™d be no funโ€ฆNow, the SK being annoying to the readerโ€ฆthis mainly happens when the SK is repeatedly getting in the way or saying things that everyone already knows. By having fully fleshed out SKs you can easily avoid both of these problems!

How to depict a sidekick who is a nerdy scientist and how to make it seem that they’re incredibly smart

Use long words and therefore you will assuredly sound one hundred times smarter than if you had simply used puny words. See how smart I sounded? Lolโ€ฆIโ€™d also recommend reading and watching smart SK, The Wars of the Realm Series by Chuck Black has a great science-smart SK named Ben, I love his character, so well done!

Also, as a side note smart characters donโ€™t have to have glassesโ€ฆjust saying. Thatโ€™s clichรฉ and a bit overdoneโ€ฆsometimes glasses are nice, but not every time. Assuming that someone is smart because they have glasses is like assuming that because someone has braces theyโ€™re nerdy. Itโ€™s just not trueโ€ฆwe have no control over whether we have braces or glassesโ€ฆ

How to depict a flirty but loyal side kick

Okay, first offโ€ฆIโ€™m not a romance writer, not a romance reader, never dated, never flirted, how do you flirt? Questions for my older sisters thereโ€ฆ*ask Rissy who shrugs and says to ask our married sister*

So, all that to say I have no clueโ€ฆI honestly write SK of the same gender as my MCโ€ฆusually because they’re best friendsโ€ฆlolโ€ฆI like that kind of SK. But I think, Grace A. Johnson might be able to help you with that one if you want to ask her! *Me screams โ€œGrace, HELP!!!!โ€*

How to make them there for you just enough yet not always, and how to make them really matter to the reader other than just a sideline person.

Making them matter as more than a sideline person links back to developing them as their own person. They need backstory, likes, dislikes, and quirks just as much as the MCโ€ฆfor the first part of the question when I think of SK I think of someone who is always thereโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ So, Iโ€™m afraid Iโ€™m not very helpfulโ€ฆbut hey, at least Iโ€™m honest and not just throwing out random unfounded adviceโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ

How to create them as complex characters, with their own ambitions, yet show how their actions aid/adhere to the hero.

I recommend filling out a character profileโ€ฆthat way you get a good grip on the SK, or you can do a Pinterest board which is way more fun in my humble opinion. So that will help with making them complex with their own ambitionsโ€ฆbut they are the MCโ€™s best friend. What would you do for your best friend? How would you help them? Take that info and use it for the SKโ€ฆtheyโ€™re not tools! I donโ€™t know how much I need to stress this fact, they are characters with goals and ambitionsโ€ฆthey can help the MC but they are not there for you to merely use when you feel like itโ€ฆyou need to build them. I hope that makes senseโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ

How do you keep the sidekicks from becoming the hero without damaging their character?

If your SK has taken over and become the heroโ€ฆyouโ€™re gonna have to damage him to get him back in his slot. Thereโ€™s no way to work around that outside of making your SK the MC and your MC the SKโ€ฆ

Why are most sidekicks more likable and relatable than the main characters?

Sometimes the MC is too perfect or too flawed and thus we end up liking the SK more. Sometimes enough work isnโ€™t put into making sure the MC shines brighter than the SK. To avoid this problem, you need to make sure your MC is relatable. Rissy will cover that more for you guys next week!

How to make them have an interesting dynamic with the main character

What makes your friendship with your best friend unique? Whatโ€™s something you notice in the relationships you have with your siblings, cousins, etc. Turn around and use those traits when developing the relationship between your MC and SK. Honestly, they donโ€™t have to have anything in common. They just need to share a bond over something, whether thatโ€™s the fact they both hate riding the bus, or they both almost died in the epidemic of 3097โ€ฆ

But the most important thing is to write them. Write their interactionsโ€ฆdonโ€™t make them get along all the time, thatโ€™d be boring. Create conflict, but nothing thatโ€™s going to spilt the friendship, or maybe you could *raises eyebrows*. Then once you have them written get feedback on it. Maybe write a scene and ask for feedback, see what people think. Ask questions, very specific questions!

How to keep the focus on the main character while still having a fully developed side character

Always make the MCโ€™s problem bigger than the SKโ€™s problem. Normally, weโ€™re gonna be in the MCโ€™s headโ€ฆso even if his problem isnโ€™t as big weโ€™re gonna think it is till proven otherwise, the only time itโ€™s okay to make the MCโ€™s problems smaller is when you’re writing a self-centered MC. The SK is built to bring out the best in the MC to spur him on in the hardest moments, sometimes the MC likes that, other times not so much. But the point isโ€ฆthe story is never supposed to be focused on the SK.

So, if your story is becoming more about the SKโ€ฆconsider why? Then figure out a way to fix itโ€ฆor maybe reverse the character rolesโ€ฆ

How to make your sidekick cool but not more interesting than the hero

Well, first offโ€ฆSK needs a backstory, that being saidโ€ฆnobody but you are usually going to see that backstory. Thatโ€™s for you to build his personality. We only get access to the SK backstory when it is related to helping the MC or some other story situation. Unlike the MC whom we get to venture into his thoughts and histories and learn everythingโ€ฆthe readers arenโ€™t going to get that with the SK, unless itโ€™s absolutely, vitally, necessary.

Also, you donโ€™t have to make the hero better at everything. Each character should have their strengths. Itโ€™s learning to balance when the SK should shine and when notโ€ฆand I think somewhere in this mess of a post Iโ€™ve probably detailed it somewhereโ€ฆlolโ€ฆ

Types of supporting talents/qualities the sidekick can/should have.

This really depends on what type of story youโ€™re writing. If youโ€™re writing a contemporary an SK with sword skills would be pretty useless, and if youโ€™re writing a fantasy an SK who knows everything under the sun about food but canโ€™t wield a weapon is useless (albeit it comical). So, pick talents and skills that compliment your genre and what your specific MC needs.

What do you do when the sidekick starts stealing the show?

Embrace itโ€ฆno just kiddingโ€ฆlolโ€ฆrein back on the SK, figure out why heโ€™s stealing the show. Why do you like writing him more? What makes him relatable? What could make your MC easier to write? Itโ€™s a delicate balanceโ€ฆbut you need to make sure your MC has enough flaws and development to carry him through the story at the lead.

Why we need them, how to break stereotypes

Everyone needs someoneโ€ฆitโ€™s no good to die alone. Solo: A Star Wars Storyโ€ฆWe all need someone; humans were created by God to need each other so the SK is basically a given. Sure, your MC could go on his quest alone butโ€ฆno offense thatโ€™s going to be a lame trip with no one to talk to or break up the silence or get him in or out of sticky situations.

There are tons of stereotypesโ€ฆI canโ€™t go into them allโ€ฆbut as for breaking a stereotypeโ€ฆthe surest way to do this is to pick a stereotype you either like or donโ€™t like and flip it. Do the exact opposite of what is usually done with it. Smart guy has glasses and is bad at sports, drop the glasses and make him a killer football player and also a tech genius. We donโ€™t have to be one thing only. Weโ€™re not either jocks or smartsโ€ฆwe can be both, so go write someone as both and break the stereotypical mold!

Character development and making them seem like a trustworthy companion to the hero.

Loyalty plays a large role in this one. Showing the SK sticking with the MC during something tough (in fantasy nine times out of ten this is the MCโ€™s parentsโ€™ death, evil uncle, aunt, or stepparent, or a battleโ€ฆplease find something else!).

Most of the time showing the SK making the MC laugh is enough to make me love them, I just love me a good comedian! But for some people they need to see the SK forged in fire, as it would beโ€ฆthey want to see them stick through something tough like a car chase, a meteor, a plague that ravages the entire kingdomโ€ฆ(literally anything but the ones I mentioned in the first note.). Or maybe itโ€™s simply helping the MC off the curb after a bully almost runs them overโ€ฆwe want to see the compassion the SK hasโ€ฆmake us love him or her!

Conclusion

Probably thought I was never going to get here, didn’t you? Wow! That was a lot of questionsโ€ฆand I only backed out of answering one! *fist pump* Thank you guys so much for the awesome questions!!! Letโ€™s continue this conversation in the comments and be sure to subscribe so you donโ€™t miss next weekโ€™s post!

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11 responses to “How to Write a Sidekick 101”

  1. Corrie.S.P. Avatar

    101 means I think you know so much about a certain subject. Like if you ask a question? Gonna get 101 answers? ๐Ÿคฃ

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      Jaidie

      Oh, okay…hahahah๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    Tauriel Wingfeather

    Good points and answers!
    I signed up for the newsletter!!! And CONGRATULATIONS on 100! ๐Ÿ˜€

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      Jaidie

      Thank you so very much!!!!!

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  3. Grace A. Johnson Avatar
    Grace A. Johnson

    You rang? Tips for writing a flirty sidekick, you say? Whoever asked that question, I’m up for giving advice! OH! And I have lots of experience with writing the sidekick as the MC, so I’d love to help out with that one too! ๐Ÿ˜€

    And, Jaidie, your answers were all awesome! Those were a LOT of great questions! XD And I just subscribed to the newsletter!!!! SO excited! ๐Ÿ˜€

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      Jaidie

      Hahaha, yes! (Sorry, this comment is so late…been busy with top secret art projects..haha) Awesome! Grace has answers guys!!!

      Thank you soooo much!!!! Hahaha, yes indeed! Thank you so very much!!!!

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        Grace A. Johnson

        (No problem, girl! OOH!! Youโ€™ve piqued my curiosity!!)

        Youโ€™re SO welcome!!! ๐Ÿ˜€

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    Joelle Stone

    Great post!! That was a lot of questions, and you did fantastic. ๐Ÿ˜€

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      Jaidie

      Thank you! Lol…I know! I didn’t think I was ever going to finish answering them all!!!

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  5. Saraina Avatar
    Saraina

    “You have to think of them as their own being and not just a prop for the MC. When we think of them as nothing more than a tool to help the MC we lose out on the beauty of what an SK can be when fully developed.” AMEN GIRL. That was perfectly phrased. Haha yes, smart SKs don’t always have to have glasses. ๐Ÿ˜‚ And such a good point about always making the MCโ€™s problem bigger than the SKโ€™s problem. Lol, sometimes I get carried away with the sidekicks in my stories and so I’ve got to keep that in mind.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer everyone’e questions, Jaidie!!! โค I so enjoyed reading it ๐Ÿ˜‰ and I can't wait for next week's post and EEE CONGRATULATIONS ON 105 SUBSCRIBERS!!! *runs off to sign up for the newsletter*

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      Jaidie

      Eeek, Glad you enjoyed the post!!! Hahaha, yeah, the stereotypes for things are so outdated…we really need to make sure we break them. Same! Sidekicks are so fun! But I have to remember the story is not about them…

      Of course, my pleasure! Yay, glad to hear that!!! Thank you so much!!!! Eeek!!!!

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